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The best gift of communication you can offer anyone is the gift of your attention.
It's great year-round.Ā
š·It costs nothing and requires no shopping.
š·Thereās no need for fancy wrapping.
Paying close attention requires deep listening skillsāfully focusing on the speaker, listening not just to the words but also to tone, body language, and emotions.
You canāt genuinely understand someone elseās perspective if you miss a few words or sentences they are expressing to you.
Learn how to pay attention without distractions. This is priceless.Ā
Focus on others and block out distractionsāno phones, pings, or alerts.š®
Don't try "faking someone out" by acting like you're engaged when you're mentally drifting.Ā
Forget the email that needs to be sent.Ā
Forget that the car needs gas.Ā
Forget about stopping at the store.
The truth is that people notice when you're "checked out." Don't kid yourself.
šÆThe better way is to be more self-aware.Ā
Exceptional communicators catch themselves qu...
Operational delays rarely come from a lack of effort.
They come from professionals who were never taught how to communicate clearly under pressure, across roles, and with accountability.
That gap shows up here.
When Iām training top tier communicators in A/E/C, one pattern is consistent:
When communication skills lag, operational risk increases.
Hereās the truth: These gaps often go unnoticed until profit margins and credibility are already impacted.
What are leaders in your firm doing to reduce these risks?

Communication tip for aspiring construction PMs and leaders:
Knowing the project lingo is good.
šKnowing the PROFIT lingo is when C-suite execs start listening.
Speak their language and watch your career path transform.
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Clarity is a beautiful thing.
Especially when tech staff are thinking through RFIs, field reports, and meeting agendas that cost A/E/C firms productivity and profits.
Yes, Artificial Intelligence can simplify complex data.
Still, AI tools only bring value when humans provide clear input and prompts.
ā”ļøWhen prompts are vague or confusing, the info you get back will miss the mark.
The result?
Misunderstandings, cost overruns, and lost credibility.
Clear thinking = Clear Prompts
ā”ļøOur Top Tier Communicator on-demand and live training programs give teams the tools to strengthen clarity, communication, and AI prompts.⬠ļø
Each of the 3 programs are under $1,000.
Individuals and firms can access today's tools to bridge communication gaps and deliver successful projects.Ā
If you're like me, there's not enough time in the day to get things done.
Busy, busy, busy.
Life is a fleeting moment.
The 4 words I just heard from Abraham Hicks have completely transformed how I spend every day.
One phrase can do the same for you.Ā
Quit rushing and start living.
I share the 4 words in the video above. Take a look.Ā
Drones and AI are reshaping the A/E/C industry.
But they donāt win pursuitsāpeople do.
What consistently sets your firm apart from others?
Curiosity and storytelling.
These skills build trust, spark connection, and make clients want to work with you.
Technical expertise mattersābut only after youāve won the bid. šÆ
To capture more pursuits, you need to connect first, then talk tech.
Iāve been teaching this at SMPS conferences, industry events, and in private trainings.Ā
It's a topic that can not be overlooked any longer.Ā
Skilled business development leaders and marketers use curiosity and storytelling to strengthen proposals, interviews, and client relationships.
Yes, physical safety and mental health must always be top priorities in our industry.
There's a different kind of safety that firms often overlook: Psychological safety.
It's an essential form of communication.
Psychological safety means that staff feel comfortable and safe in expressing their emotions, using their voices, and sharing concerns ā without judgment or repercussions.
ā”ļøIt directly impacts emotional well-being, talent retention, performance, and job dissatisfaction.
When leaders in my training programs are unsure of this practice, I worry.
Are your emerging leaders and executives using psychological safety practices to support staff?

When even one team member dreads speaking at meetings, presentations, or networking events, your firm is losing money.
Why?
Hidden feelings of inadequacy:
šChip away at confidence
šDrain energy
šCreate a weak link
These things show up in client conversations, project interviews, and daily collaboration.
Most staff wonāt openly admit to these fears.
I get it. It's uncomfortable.
Still, the cost of angst is real: lost productivity, stalled growth, and bids that slip away.
Leaders must start the conversation, turning quiet fears into confident voices.
The ROI is measurable.
A/E/C projects donāt typically lose money because of technical mistakes.
Projects lose money because of miscommunication.
You see it every day:
šA missed client cue.
šA poorly led meeting.
šAn unclear email that delays project handovers and brings cost overruns.
Leaders often underestimate the cost of these misunderstandings.
The frustrating part is that most miscommunication in our industry is avoidable. šÆ
The blunders above chip away at trust, delay schedules, and shrink profit margins.
šIn todayās competitive market, communication isnāt a āsoft skill.ā
Itās a revenue skill.
Is your team helping to protect profits?
There was an engineering webinar yesterday with 225 people online.Ā
I was one of them.
I was on camera.
As I scrolled through the participants, I noticed 99 percent were off-camera.Ā
No faces.Ā
Most didn't even have a headshot or imageājust a dark screen with their name.
š®The chat? Silent.
š®The interaction? Nonexistent.
š®The engagement? Almost zero.
There was no technical glitch. It was aĀ communication culture issue.
When busy A/E/C firms invest in webinars, training, or virtual meetings, they often forget the human part:
ā”ļø People don'tĀ engageĀ when they don't feel safe and confident.
ā”ļø Cameras stay off when participants feel awkward.
Yes, I realize some may have been eating lunch or caring for a child. Zoom fatigue is a real thing. But the entire group??!!
ā”ļø Silence in the chat is a symptom of disengagement or aĀ lack of confidence to express viewsĀ or at least say hi to others online.Ā
I posted in the chat right before the start of the program: "Thank you (organizer's ...
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