Three words.

These three words are the core strategy for increasing your revenue.

So why do so many A/E/C firms struggle to win more pursuits?😕

If you don't see how revenue ties to these three words, profitability stays flat, and your credibility can suffer.

Here's the key: Business development and relationship-building start with communication.💯

Improving your hit rates comes down to one actionable strategy: Make small talk.

Easy, light-hearted conversations build deeper connections, generate more referrals, and drive sustainable growth.📈

Technical people who aren't comfortable interacting with others miss chances to generate leads.

🎯Make small talk your competitive advantage.

The bottom line is that engagement grows business.

Proposal writers often spend over 100 hours preparing RFPs.

➡️The real secret to a strong bid isn’t just about how clear the messaging is.

In fact, most proposals include overly technical data, lengthy resumes, and confusing jargon that won't help you stand out. 😕

This raises the question: are your proposal writers and business development team overlooking the importance of selling your firm within the proposal itself?

Remember, selling your firm in a proposal isn't about a pushy sales pitch that readers recognize a mile away. 

Selling your firm in an RFP means knowing how to:

🎯Subtly weave in the benefits of working together
🎯Address possible objections long before the shortlisted interview
🎯Reduce the risk of hiring your firm

By making selling within your proposals a priority and using these techniques in your next submission, you’ll see your hit rates improve. 

I’m seeing a recurring leadership risk inside A/E/C firms right now.

Strong project managers get promoted; their technical performance is consistent, but something quietly breaks down in high-stakes conversations with clients, principals, or internal teams. 🚩

The risks are higher, and expectations shift from expertise to influence—subtle but critical.

Leaders sense it early.

The hesitation, the over-explaining, and the missed cues are warning signs. 

These moments erode trust and can affect a leader’s credibility—even when intentions are good.😮

The challenge isn’t confidence or personality.

➡️The real issue is conversational judgment. It’s a skill that’s rarely measured until it’s already had an impact on results. 

Typically, it's a negative impact that results in frustration and lost bids.

🔷This month, I’m opening a small number of private Leadership Conversation Audits for firm leaders who want clarity around a specific emerging or newly promoted leader—and what to correct, coach, or recalibr...

I met yesterday with a leader of a national construction trade organization to discuss hot-button issues our industry faces as we head into 2026.

We weren't discussing tech skills.

➡️Instead, we were focusing on the critical need for the younger workforce to uplevel their interpersonal communication.

I imagine these takeaways will resonate with you:

1. A/E/C's fragmented ecosystem must be improved to enhance job site safety, messaging, and knowledge transfer.
2. Newer staff must become proficient in decision-making, problem-solving, and other critical thinking skills. Clarifying information and logical thought processes improve job site safety, project completion, and leadership development.
3. Bi-directional knowledge in our multigenerational workforce is essential for continuous learning. Communication is not linear; rather, it is an ongoing process for all generations to embrace.

Here's the truth: Each of these points — along with cybersecurity — is a stark reminder to prioritize ...

Communication tip:

Teamwork is your competitive advantage.

Here's the truth: A lack of trust amongst A/E/C teams brings dysfunction.

Messy interactions and communication breakdowns lead to misunderstandings, cost overruns, reworks, low morale, and labor shortages.

Successful leaders are willing to quickly and honestly address chaos to diffuse conflicts and keep projects on track.

How do you manage conflicts and dysfunctional teams?

Reach out if your team needs support. 

Drones and AI are reshaping the A/E/C industry.

But they don’t win pursuits—people do.

What consistently sets your firm apart from others?

Curiosity and storytelling.

These skills build trust, spark connection, and make clients want to work with you.

Technical expertise matters—but only after you’ve won the bid. 🎯

To capture more pursuits, you need to connect first, then talk tech.

I’ve been teaching this at SMPS conferences, industry events, and in private trainings. 

It's a topic that can not be overlooked any longer. 

Skilled business development leaders and marketers use curiosity and storytelling to strengthen proposals, interviews, and client relationships.

Yes, physical safety and mental health must always be top priorities in our industry.

There's a different kind of safety that firms often overlook: Psychological safety.

It's an essential form of communication.

Psychological safety means that staff feel comfortable and safe in expressing their emotions, using their voices, and sharing concerns — without judgment or repercussions.

➡️It directly impacts emotional well-being, talent retention, performance, and job dissatisfaction.

When leaders in my training programs are unsure of this practice, I worry.

Are your emerging leaders and executives using psychological safety practices to support staff?

Years ago, when I was in high school, I lost my voice for a few days.

I suddenly had laryngitis. 

Couldn't make a sound. 

It was beyond frustrating.

After college, I became a radio news reporter and anchor. 

My voice was my job. I had a degree in communication. 

But even then, I didn't fully believe my opinion or voice mattered. 😮

I second-guessed my worth. 

I stayed quiet when I had something to say. Sound familiar? 

I see the same pattern in 95% of the A/E/C professionals in my coaching and training programs. 

People who are technically capable but hesitate to speak up in client-facing meetings or networking events.

Many in our industry shy away from making small talk and interacting with others.

It's about having more confidence.

Keeping your "nose in your phone" keeps you silent in real life. 

💰The reluctance to use your voice costs your firm millions in lost bids, referrals, and opportunities.💰

A/E/C professionals don't lack ideas; they doubt their value. 

They second-guess themselves.