The dance.

Bon Jovi is in the midst of nine shows at Madison Square Garden, after not touring since 2022.

That break followed serious vocal cord problems for frontman Jon Bon Jovi that threatened his iconic voice.

Last year, I saw Jon Bon Jovi on a news program talking about risky surgery and his tedious daily exercises.

He spoke of the physical pain and the emotions of not knowing if a comeback was possible. 😯

Critics and fans hadn't minced words a few years ago: Bon Jovi's strained and raspy voice was shot.

His bandmates tried to cover, but couldn't.

With all eyes and ears on Jon Bon Jovi, the band takes to the stage on opening night.

Surrounded by his bandmates, Bon Jovi sings the first few lines from Joe Cocker and the Beatles' song, With a Little Help From My Friends.

🎶The opening words boldly and wholeheartedly address the elephant in the room:

"What would you think if I sang out of tune? Would you stand up and walk out on me? Lend me your ears, and I'll sing you a song, and I'll try n...

Defining moments.

My first memory of seeing the Statue of Liberty.

➡️In 1970, when I was in second grade in New Jersey, my class took a trip to the Statue of Liberty.

It was only a 30-minute drive from our cushy, middle-class neighborhood.

Back then, everyone brought metal lunch boxes to school.😯

But for this trip, our lunches were packed in brown paper bags instead.

My classmates and I sat at the base of the Statue and ate lunch, looking out over Liberty Island.

I finished most of my sandwich, walked to the rusted, weathered garbage can, and tossed my bag on top of the pile. 🗑️

A minute later, I saw a homeless man reach into the can and take my bag. He began eating what I had thrown away.

That night, I asked my parents why anyone would eat food from the garbage.

They answered me in just three sentences.

I cried.

And I never forgot that moment.

➡️The next year, in 1971, a classmate called me a dirty J*ew.

I was only 9 years old. 😢

➡️1976- I successfully lobbied the principal at my middle school for ...

You decide.

Taking small, consistent actions each day can be an effective way to make progress toward your goals.

If you have reasons for not taking even a small step toward your goal, consider whether any of those reasons might be holding you back. 

🚩Another word for reasons is excuses.

Sometimes, what we see as reasons could also be seen as obstacles to progress.

Yes, we're all busy. Many people in A/E/C feel burned out, overwhelmed, or anxious. The world can feel beyond chaotic. 

And, even in tumultuous times, many people try not to let their circumstances keep them stuck.

Here's something to consider: Some of the most important conversations aren’t with bosses or partners. 

The conversations and communication you have with yourself are critical. 💯

Your self-talk. Your internal chatter. This is what matters most.

🥇Your internal narrative shapes your mindset and success. 

When you bypass reasons and focus fully on your goal, consistent action and accountability can help you reach the finish lin...

The 2026 Ebola outbreak in the Democratic Republic of the Congo shows that infectious disease outbreaks demand more than medical expertise.

They require clear, timely, and credible communication.

Global health leaders are battling misinformation, public mistrust, and logistical challenges.

The following case study examines Emory University Hospital’s response to the 2014 Ebola outbreak.

The assessment reveals that those communication strategies and lessons remain relevant as public health leaders confront today's evolving crisis.

Ebola Case Study 

(Ghostwritten by Susan Young)

Business development professionals and marketers aren't the only rainmakers in A/E/C firms.

Today, everyone is in marketing.

Most project managers and technical leads didn't sign up for this BD role.⬅️

Still, when your teams have time with clients, they must be skillful communicators.

Precious time spent with stakeholders is a significant opportunity to build credibility, trust, and connections that will help land your next big project.

Pitches at the end of a project often fall flat.

📈A better strategy in business development is to create value gradually over the course of work.

Taking this approach rather than waiting until the end means you're not pitching anything.

Repeat clients and referrals will easily fall into your lap without you awkwardly asking for a sale.

You'll earn trust and work by:

🎯Communicating daily and being proactive

🎯Asking strategic questions and sharing insights from project managers

🎯Framing conversations around client results

When your PMs and te...

It's empowering when you speak or prepare successful RFPs, and you know you nailed the message.⬅️

🧨A/E/C pros feel confident and self-assured with effective communication.

It may not be your strength right now.

The good news is that you can learn interpersonal and collaborative communication techniques.

It's just part of what we teach in our Top Tier Communicator Training.

There's a sense of urgency around effective communication because firms are losing millions to competitors every day.

Top Tier Communicator gives teams the confidence and repeatable skills to win more bids and build deeper relationships.

Scroll through the testimonials and details and save your seats for the April, May, or June courses. 

A/E/C NewsFlash: 

Architects, engineers, and construction pros are in business.

🎓No matter your degree or major, you must know the bigger picture of your role.

You've got to understand the marketing, revenue, and operations of day-to-day business.

➡️How do YOU contribute to goals like sustainable growth, winning pursuits, succession planning, and effective communication?

College degrees and certifications don't give us a "pass" on learning. 😮

It's not a one-and-done. 

Can you say continuous improvement? 😎

Don't be the Radio Shack or Kodak of your firm.

🎆Take initiative, think creatively (unrelated to designs, infrastructure, or building materials), and show up in a bigger, bolder way.

People who strategically connect the dots win trust and lead the industry. 

*️⃣Take the initiative with one of our communication, sales, and mindset development training programs.

Click here for training info or drop me a note.

You have a fear of speaking up at presentations or meetings? 

Maybe you’re afraid you stink at networking.

Or maybe you’ve been scaring yourself with imposter syndrome because you don’t have all the answers for clients. 

Read the words on the man’s shirt that I saw this morning. 

Facts Over Fear. 

🎯Fact: All humans are born with 2 innate fears. 

1- The fear of falling.
2- The fear of loud noises. 

Somewhere along life’s journey, you’ve convinced yourself you stink at public speaking, networking, and pursuits. 👀

Blah, blah, blah.

I was there years ago, and I’m not anymore. 😂

Today, I know it’s all learned behavior that you can unlearn to be more successful. 

That’s a fact. 

Is it time to stop scaring yourself and staying stuck? 

🙌Facts Over Fear. 

Reach out if you are ready to stop the negative self talk and step into your potential. 

You decide. 💯

Understanding brain science gives you a competitive advantage in internal meetings and shortlisted interviews.

A/E/C pros are left-brain analytical thinkers who thrive on processes. 

Incorporating right-brain emotional thinking can enhance engagement and simplify tasks.🎯

In a new workshop I delivered for the Society for Marketing Professional Services, SMPS, we covered Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP). 

Seasoned leaders discovered how this business and communications methodology can save time and valuable resources.

Also, implementing these strategies can help reduce frustration levels within internal teams.

Unnecessary and unorganized meetings are among the top complaints in our group coaching and training.😮

Here are five crucial takeaways for improving meetings and communication:

1. Share the agenda in advance.
2. Follow your allotted schedule and respect other people's time. A 30-minute meeting that spirals into 90 minutes can be infuriating.
3. Invite only essential people.
4. Pa
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So many people are oblivious to the negative self-talk loop playing in their heads every day. 

I was there most of my life. 

And I'm not there anymore. 

A/E/C coaching clients admit they beat themselves up with imposter syndrome.

😮Many feel unprepared for last-minute meetings.

😮Others are self-conscious about not having "all the answers."

😮Have you convinced yourself you lack the personality and confidence to step into leadership?

👀 Does this resonate with you? 

The best news is that negative self-talk is not a permanent condition!

👉Self-awareness and trusting yourself bring empowerment and new energy. 

In this 2-minute video clip from the archives (2010!!), I shed light on how to transform with positive self-talk.  

Ready to get out of your own way and head? 

Click above to see the clip. ⬆️⬆️⬆️